Whether you are married, single, or “it’s complicated”—God is the embodiment of LOVE and through Him, we learn how to love and care for the ones closest to us! God also designed the blueprint for romantic relationships. Every challenge and blessing was intended to also be a reflection of His love for us. Whether you have been married for decades, are a newlywed, engaged, or long to be married—we all have something to learn about healthy relationships. In Scripture, we find encouragement for our season of life and promises to carry us through.
Verses for your marriage…
Marriage is a beautiful gift from God! With God at the center, we can weather any challenge or storm TOGETHER!
Ecclesiastes 4:9-12
“Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed. If one person falls, the other can reach out and help. But someone who falls alone is in real trouble. Likewise, two people lying close together can keep each other warm. But how can one be warm alone? A person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer. Three are even better, for a triple-braided cord is not easily broken.” (NLT)
1 Peter 4:8
"Above all, have fervent and unfailing love for one another, because love covers a multitude of sins [it overlooks unkindness and unselfishly seeks the best for others]." (AMP)
1 Corinthians 13:4-7
"Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance." (NLT)
Romans 15:5
“May God, who gives this patience and encouragement, help you live in complete harmony with each other, as is fitting for followers of Christ Jesus.” (NLT)
Ephesians 4:2
"Always be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other’s faults because of your love." (NLT)
Romans 12:10
"Love each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honoring each other." (NLT)
Colossians 3:14
"Beyond all these things put on and wrap yourselves in [unselfish] love, which is the perfect bond of unity [for everything is bound together in agreement when each one seeks the best for others]." (AMP)
Verses if you are praying for a spouse...
If you long to be married, draw close to God. Even now, He is preparing you for your future! This season will not be wasted. You can hold onto these promises from God:
Isaiah 54:5
“For your Maker is your husband—the Lord Almighty is His Name—the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer; He is called the God of all the earth.” (NIV)
Jeremiahs 29:11
“‘For I know the plans I have for you,’ declares the Lord, ‘plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.’” (NIV)
Matthew 6:33
"Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and He will give you everything you need." (NLT)
Verses for when you need relational restoration and healing…
As imperfect people, we need God's grace. Since we serve a God who is quick to forgive and restore us, how much more are we called to extend the same forgiveness and grace to others? Here are some verses to remember when heartbreak and offense try to flood our hearts:
Psalm 34:18
"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted; He rescues those whose spirits are crushed." (NLT)
Romans 12:12
"Constantly rejoicing in hope [because of our confidence in Christ], steadfast and patient in distress, devoted to prayer [continually seeking wisdom, guidance, and strength]." (AMP)
Psalm 71:20-21
"Though You have made me see troubles, many and bitter, You will restore my life again; from the depths of the earth You will again bring me up. You will increase my honor and comfort me once more." (NIV)
Philippians 4:6-7
"Do not be anxious or worried about anything, but in everything [every circumstance and situation] by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, continue to make your [specific] requests known to God. And the peace of God [that peace which reassures the heart, that peace] which transcends all understanding, [that peace which] stands guard over your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus [is yours]." (AMP)
Matthew 18:15
“If another believer sins against you, go privately and point out the offense. If the other person listens and confesses it, you have won that person back.” (NLT)
Matthew 6:14
“For if you forgive others their trespasses [their reckless and willful sins], your heavenly Father will also forgive you.” (AMP)
Verses if you are widowed…
If you are grieving today, know that you are seen, known, and loved. God has not forgotten you; He is right there holding you! In the Bible, we find many verses that give comfort in our grief:
Psalm 68:5
"Father to the fatherless, defender of widows— this is God, whose dwelling is holy." (NLT)
Psalm 147:3
"He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds [healing their pain and comforting their sorrow]." (AMP)
1 Peter 5:10
"And the God of all grace, who called you to His eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will Himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast." (NIV)
Psalm 91:4
"He will cover you with His feathers. He will shelter you with His wings. His faithful promises are your armor and protection." (NLT)
No matter your relationship status—you have Jesus—and His love is unlimited and unconditional. You can run to Him for comfort, help, and security. If you want to go deeper, here are great conversations for you to join:
Conversations on Marriage and Relationships:
- Episode 1141 | Marriage by God's Design
- Episode 1142 | Your Spouse is Designed to be Different
- Episode 1143 | Resolving Conflict in Marriage
- Episode 1144 | When Couples Face Life's Changes
- Episode 1145 | Honest Answers About Marriage
- Episode 986 | Our Love Stories
- Episode 987 | The Language of Love
- Episode 988 | Priorities for a Marriage
- Episode 989 | How to Keep Romance Alive
- Episode 990 | A Marriage Built on Prayer
- Episode 718 | How to Date Well
Conversations on Restoration:
- Episode 981 | Restored by God's Grace
- Episode 982 | God Restores the Brokenhearted
- Episode 983 | Can My Family be Restored?
- Episode 984 | How to Pray for Restoration
- Episode 985 | A Place of Restoration and Hope
